How Church Has Failed Me.

Hey Vulnerabites, Y’all know I have this love-hate relationship with the saints — but after watching this interview with Dr.Caroline Leaf, it became clear that my frustrations are not with the saints per say, but with the “churchy ways” of religion that I’ve been programmed to believe were the only way to be fully Christian,…

When is it Ok to Leave My Marriage?

Hey Vulnerabites, Her husband needed help. She called me crying, begging to stay the night at my apartment. She was family, “of course you can come boo.” One night turned into a week. “Honey, you have to go back home and deal with this. You can’t just stay with me forever.” A few months later,…

Why I Don’t Have Deep Friendships.

Ooooo Vulnerabites, let’s get into it! “Mac, I open up about my marriage, but I don’t feel like you do the same.” She shared her marital frustrations with me, and here came the golden question, “Girl, am I trippin?” — In short, I responded, “Maybe y’all should try counseling.” Ouch! There was no empathy, only…

Should I Tell Friends My Husband Cheated?

Hey Vulnerabites! We exchanged messages for about 2 hours before we decided that it’s best she not bring up the real issue with this woman again and resolve the new state of their friendship with a casual acquaintance. Now, y’all know I’m a firm believer in confrontation  —at least if you care about the relationship— but quite frankly,…

Are you 30-Something (or about to be)? Read This.

Hey Vulnerabites, Oh how I’ve missed y’all! But in between the Instagram DMs and the blog comments, I manage to get my Vulnerabite fix until I break off another piece of my life with your pretty faces 🙂 Direct Message me on Instagram @YoursVulnerably Soooo… let’s get right into it. There’s this awkward space between…

Bad Friendships are Good for Marriage.

Hey Vulnerabites, If there’s anything I love more than sharing life, it’s when y’all talk back and ask for more! If you’re new here, so glad to have you. Remember to subscribe! I don’t mean to talk about marriage as often as I have, but for some reason or another, y’all are lapping it up! I mean,…

Single? Here’s who to blame.

Hey Vulnerabites, I’m totally married, so I don’t really need to take on this cause… but I really do though, because of what I’ve been through and in hopes of sharing some insight for those who are coming behind me in this journey. So, the ‘professional side’ of our video chat had come to an end, we…

There’s Something (else) About Mac.

Hey Vulnerabites, Guess what y’all? I just received another bloggers award! Whoop! Whoop! What a lovely way to Celebrate two years of blogging! Two Awards in Two Years! Sweet! Drifty, thank you so much for recognizing my blog. I’m humbled and honored to have my Vulnerabite community acknowledged and appreciated. I am sincerely grateful to you…

I Posted His Penis on Facebook.

Hey Vulnerabites, Sooo umm Yaa Yaa, fellow Vulnerabite, read my last post and asked me this: How did you get through it with your self-esteem in tact and the ability to find love again? I wanted to throw the Christian stamp at her and shout JESUS!, but there’s a Mac who would roll her eyes…

He Cheated. I Stayed.

Oh Vulnerabites, I couldn’t make out what he was saying, but I knew he was sort of catching this person up on his day… a lot like he would talk to me. I picked up on the shift of his body language, almost as if he was trying to hide his ‘it’s so good to…