Should I Tell Friends My Husband Cheated?

Hey Vulnerabites! We exchanged messages for about 2 hours before we decided that it’s best she not bring up the real issue with this woman again and resolve the new state of their friendship with a casual acquaintance. Now, y’all know I’m a firm believer in confrontation  —at least if you care about the relationship— but quite frankly,…

Are you 30-Something (or about to be)? Read This.

Hey Vulnerabites, Oh how I’ve missed y’all! But in between the Instagram DMs and the blog comments, I manage to get my Vulnerabite fix until I break off another piece of my life with your pretty faces 🙂 Direct Message me on Instagram @YoursVulnerably Soooo… let’s get right into it. There’s this awkward space between…

Bad Friendships are Good for Marriage.

Hey Vulnerabites, If there’s anything I love more than sharing life, it’s when y’all talk back and ask for more! If you’re new here, so glad to have you. Remember to subscribe! I don’t mean to talk about marriage as often as I have, but for some reason or another, y’all are lapping it up! I mean,…

Single? Here’s who to blame.

Hey Vulnerabites, I’m totally married, so I don’t really need to take on this cause… but I really do though, because of what I’ve been through and in hopes of sharing some insight for those who are coming behind me in this journey. So, the ‘professional side’ of our video chat had come to an end, we…

There’s Something (else) About Mac.

Hey Vulnerabites, Guess what y’all? I just received another bloggers award! Whoop! Whoop! What a lovely way to Celebrate two years of blogging! Two Awards in Two Years! Sweet! Drifty, thank you so much for recognizing my blog. I’m humbled and honored to have my Vulnerabite community acknowledged and appreciated. I am sincerely grateful to you…

I Posted His Penis on Facebook.

Hey Vulnerabites, Sooo umm Yaa Yaa, fellow Vulnerabite, read my last post and asked me this: How did you get through it with your self-esteem in tact and the ability to find love again? I wanted to throw the Christian stamp at her and shout JESUS!, but there’s a Mac who would roll her eyes…

He Cheated. I Stayed.

Oh Vulnerabites, I couldn’t make out what he was saying, but I knew he was sort of catching this person up on his day… a lot like he would talk to me. I picked up on the shift of his body language, almost as if he was trying to hide his ‘it’s so good to…

Should Married People have Single Friends?

Oh Vulnerabites, She texted me saying: “Shared my news with the bestie and didn’t really get the excitement I was looking for.” Ouch. That feeling when the best time of your life is equally the worst time of your life. Somewhere in between ‘finally being found by your Boaz(or your Billy)‘ and being thrilled to…

No One Came to Our Wedding.

Hey Vulnerabites, So, there’s like this huge lump in my throat as I begin to share vulnerably about this part of my life. Like I mentioned a few blogs ago, I absolutely do not like talking about my relationship(or anything related to it), but seems to be the place that resonates with most of you. And…

We NEED this in Relationships.

Hey Vulnerabites, One minute…Let me seal the velcro on my boxing gloves, so this fight can be fair. She sent me this long WhatsApp message… I mean, the kind that had the ‘read more’ tab after her 6th paragraph. Taking a very deep breath and squirming at the length of it, I sat down to…