10 Months In…I’m Leaving My Husband.

Hey Vulnerabites, Tara and I hit it off instantly (we literally skipped the small talk and tapped into some very vulnerable places in our FIRST conversation). I knew right away this was someone I’d want to ‘keep around.’ Journeying alongside her behind the scenes has been an honor. I hope that you’ll grow to love her as you get…

We’re All Waiting For…

My phone would not stop buzzing, one text after another came rolling in. I ignored it. I wasn’t ready for people’s opinions on how I should’ve just ‘kept that to myself.’ When my ‘panic-attack-like’ symptoms subsided and I had the guts to face what my ‘pinnacle of vulnerability’ had brought me, I looked at my…

I Got Tested Again.

Hey Vulnerabites, This is it! The last part of My Trilogy… You’ll need to read this first and then this… so that you’ll be able to savor what happens here… Go read those and I’ll be here waiting for you… ************************************************************ “It looks like you have cleared the virus to a negative level.” SELAH. I…

It’s About Time!

Hey Vulnerabites… >>>> A commercial break from that heavy heavy trilogy I”m unpacking..lol.<<<< I’m grateful for the precious soul in a young woman named “D”. She’s been the silent partner nudging me along with accountable texts like, “Umm when’s the next blog coming?”  I’d hit her with the “Girl, I’ve been busy,” line. And she’d give me…

How People Hurt Me.

Hey Vulnerabites… If you haven’t already, please go back and read this first… as this is the sequel of my “unpacking” on this journey… I left the clinic and walked slowly to my next class. There I was standing in the middle of University of Florida’s campus, surrounded by 52,000 students… yet, I felt so…

He gave me herpes…

Hey Vulnerabites, I thought that if I shut down my blog (yes! those entire 48 hours…lol), delete the app from my phone, and remove the bookmark on my laptop, I could erase that nagging feeling that is almost compelling me to share this experience with you. Nah, it’s not a catchy blog title… this is…

Until Next Time…

Hey Vulnerabites… Thank you so much for journeying with me through my thoughts and life experiences this last year, it’s been the authentic online space that I craved. I am in my head quite a bit these days and haven’t been inspired to articulate my experiences in writing. So, see you later for now… Maybe inspiration will…

When I Was Single, Nobody Told Me…

Oh yes! It’s about to go down! lol. Hey Vulnerabites… Can I just sloppy wet smooch everyone on the other side of this screen? The love has been real! The last two times I shared my “heart in words”, I got over 500 hits! Whoop! Whoop! I’m looking forward to the day I can add…

Why I Don’t Talk About Him.

Hey Vulnerabites, I got so much love from my last post. THANK YOU. I got about 50 different clicks from the links I shared. Whoop! Whoop! If only I was getting a commission…hhhmmm…maybe one day. I also want to show some love to my Vulnerabites who shared the post  … Big Sloppy Wet Smooches to you!…

He’s Not The One.

Hey Vulnerabites, Listen to me… He’s not the one. Hi, My name is Mac and I am here to burst your little Cinderella day dream… just as I promised you in my entry on “What not to tell Singles.” I waited my whole life for “the one.” You know… my one true love… my prince charming,…

I’m showing my a**

Hey Vulnerabites, Lesson One: “The higher you climb, the more a** you show.” (sorry to be crass). I literally burst out laughing when I read her text, because I couldn’t link the gentle soul of my 60-something year old, Halle Berry prototype, mentor of mine sending me this kind of message. Get to Know Me on…

Last Night I met Oprah’s director…

Dear Vulnerabites, Last night in New York City… this is what happened to me… She held my hand with a slightly firm grip, smiled and said, “It’s nice to meet you. I’m just trying to get back to my seat.” Of course she was, just like everyone else in the room. Get to Know Me on…