How Do I Know if He Likes Me.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac” for the month of August. You ask questions, I will choose one question to answer — only…

How Do I End a Friendship.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac” for the month of August. You ask questions, I will choose one question to answer — only…

How to Tell My Friend That I Don’t Like Her.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac” for the month of August. You ask questions, I answer — only on Mondays. So…

My Husband Likes It, My Parents Don’t.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac”. You ask questions, I answer — only on Mondays. So send in your questions to…

We Need White People.

“We need white people in South Africa,” his words exactly. “If not, the country will go down like Zimbabwe.” That’s what our Uber driver told us as we drove to Groots Winery in CapeTown. “Look on the other side of the highway. Do you see any black faces driving cars?”, he asked us. “If you…

My Dad is Ruining My Marriage.

Hey Vulnerabites, We were playing tag in the hallways of a family clinic. All of the staff members were outside attending to the free community clinic fair. He seemingly appeared out of thin air, interrupting my bee-line focus to tag my fellow 9 year old. I was semi-laughing from excitement and trying to catch my…

Why I Hate Vision Boards.

  Hey Vulnerabites, I’ve just pissed off a few life coaches and motivational speakers with that title 🙂 So — it’s 2019. For the last couple of years, at the start of every new year, I would decide on my top 10 goals and create a vision board to accompany it. This Year? I haven’t…

I’m Doing Life All Wrong.

Hey Vulnerabites, I walked through the circle and headed towards the last available seat. As I sought to quickly sift through my tote bag for my note book, before I could even put my bag down, I heard him say, “Oh great Mac! You’ll go first!” —- What the?!?!? Bruh, I’m just trying to find my…

Is it ok for Christians to Masturbate?

Hey Vulnerabites, Soooo …. my last blog was a hot tamale! The proof is in the comments 🙂 With that being said, a new question emerged in the comments and I’m here to create a space to engage in discussion around it. In one word…. M.A.S.T.U.R.B.A.T.I.O.N. Straight from the mouths of my Vulnerabites: 1.) “To…

How Church Taught Me to Orgasm.

Hey Vulnerabites, Sorry for the uncomfortable title, but y’all know how I do. Go ahead and scroll up, so no one will flash judgmental stares your way. Let’s get right into it. “The Female Orgasm” episode on Netflix’s Explained Docuseries is where it’s at. Spoiler Alert Below! Here’s what I learned: My clit is my best…