What Being a Side Chick Taught Me about Friendship.

Hey Vulnerabites, Let’s get into it. “I’m coming to pick y’all up right now!”, I shouted through the phone. We all squeezed into my 1996 manual green Toyota Corolla, and with all of the rage from my last Yahoo Messenger IM pulled up to his house. He had the audacity to visit me two nights…

Is it ok to be Married and Attracted to Someone Else?

Hey Vulnerabites! Thank You for giving me the opportunity to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac” for the month of August. You’ve asked great questions, I didn’t get a chance to answer all of them, but who knows… we might see this pilot project again 🙂 But for now,…

How Do I Know if He Likes Me.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac” for the month of August. You ask questions, I will choose one question to answer — only…

How Do I End a Friendship.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac” for the month of August. You ask questions, I will choose one question to answer — only…

How to Tell My Friend That I Don’t Like Her.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac” for the month of August. You ask questions, I answer — only on Mondays. So…

My Husband Likes It, My Parents Don’t.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac”. You ask questions, I answer — only on Mondays. So send in your questions to…

We Need White People.

“We need white people in South Africa,” his words exactly. “If not, the country will go down like Zimbabwe.” That’s what our Uber driver told us as we drove to Groots Winery in CapeTown. “Look on the other side of the highway. Do you see any black faces driving cars?”, he asked us. “If you…

My Dad is Ruining My Marriage.

Hey Vulnerabites, We were playing tag in the hallways of a family clinic. All of the staff members were outside attending to the free community clinic fair. He seemingly appeared out of thin air, interrupting my bee-line focus to tag my fellow 9 year old. I was semi-laughing from excitement and trying to catch my…

Why I Hate Vision Boards.

  Hey Vulnerabites, I’ve just pissed off a few life coaches and motivational speakers with that title 🙂 So — it’s 2019. For the last couple of years, at the start of every new year, I would decide on my top 10 goals and create a vision board to accompany it. This Year? I haven’t…

I’m Doing Life All Wrong.

Hey Vulnerabites, I walked through the circle and headed towards the last available seat. As I sought to quickly sift through my tote bag for my note book, before I could even put my bag down, I heard him say, “Oh great Mac! You’ll go first!” —- What the?!?!? Bruh, I’m just trying to find my…