My Dad is Ruining My Marriage.

Hey Vulnerabites, We were playing tag in the hallways of a family clinic. All of the staff members were outside attending to the free community clinic fair. He seemingly appeared out of thin air, interrupting my bee-line focus to tag my fellow 9 year old. I was semi-laughing from excitement and trying to catch my…

How Church Taught Me to Orgasm.

Hey Vulnerabites, Sorry for the uncomfortable title, but y’all know how I do. Go ahead and scroll up, so no one will flash judgmental stares your way. Let’s get right into it. “The Female Orgasm” episode on Netflix’s Explained Docuseries is where it’s at. Spoiler Alert Below! Here’s what I learned: My clit is my best…

When is it Ok to Leave My Marriage?

Hey Vulnerabites, Her husband needed help. She called me crying, begging to stay the night at my apartment. She was family, “of course you can come boo.” One night turned into a week. “Honey, you have to go back home and deal with this. You can’t just stay with me forever.” A few months later,…

Should I Tell Friends My Husband Cheated?

Hey Vulnerabites! We exchanged messages for about 2 hours before we decided that it’s best she not bring up the real issue with this woman again and resolve the new state of their friendship with a casual acquaintance. Now, y’all know I’m a firm believer in confrontation  —at least if you care about the relationship— but quite frankly,…

Bad Friendships are Good for Marriage.

Hey Vulnerabites, If there’s anything I love more than sharing life, it’s when y’all talk back and ask for more! If you’re new here, so glad to have you. Remember to subscribe! I don’t mean to talk about marriage as often as I have, but for some reason or another, y’all are lapping it up! I mean,…

Should Married People have Single Friends?

Oh Vulnerabites, She texted me saying: “Shared my news with the bestie and didn’t really get the excitement I was looking for.” Ouch. That feeling when the best time of your life is equally the worst time of your life. Somewhere in between ‘finally being found by your Boaz(or your Billy)‘ and being thrilled to…

No One Came to Our Wedding.

Hey Vulnerabites, So, there’s like this huge lump in my throat as I begin to share vulnerably about this part of my life. Like I mentioned a few blogs ago, I absolutely do not like talking about my relationship(or anything related to it), but seems to be the place that resonates with most of you. And…