I’m Doing it Afraid.

Morning Vulnerabites…. So I’m nervous. I told myself that after my self-sabotaging karate kick that let the opportunity in Brooklyn slip right through my fingers, I would make more of an effort to #TMC (Take More Chances). So that’s what Im doing folks… and I am nnneeerrrvvvooouuusssss. Let’s Connect on Instagram , Twitter and Facebook I submitted…

She Called Me “Petty.”

Hey Vulnerabites…. Let me begin with my reverse Beyonce lyrics… “I AM Sorry!” I’m sorry because I was considering hanging an “OUT OF ORDER” sign over our “Naked Space.” In light of that, I want to thank my dear friend Ms.McCullough for calling me “petty” two days ago.#RollingMyEyes. Snuggle up My Vulnerabites, we are going…

I Regret it. So, Now I’m #TMC.

Alright Vulnera-bites… Here I am… I’ve been avoiding having to share this page in my life, but every time I think of writing— it’s the only thing that comes to mind. So here goes… Let’s Connect on Instagram , Twitter and Facebook Her email came with a big “REJECTED” stamp across the screen. Ok, not really… but…

It Really Bothers Me When…

I was about ready to flip over this table and we were all going to get a close-up of the “Incredible Mac.” I just smiled and waited for him to finish. “Blah. Blah. Blah.” He was going on and on about how single women needed to “focus on preparing themselves before their husbands would come.”…

“Being Authentic = Rich” -Oprah

“I had no idea that being your authentic self could make me as I’ve rich as I’ve become. If I had, I’d have done it a lot earlier.” – Oprah Winfrey UUmm Oprah… My Vulnera-bites and I have a couple of questions for you. Number one… What does that even mean? I’ve been me my…

I Was the Ugly Step Sister.

When I received her call on Sunday afternoon, her shaky voice betrayed her. She wanted to share her heart in strength, but in this moment she was weak. I listened in silence. I had no words. I wanted to share this experience with all of you, but knew this was a story that had to…

My Marriage Didn’t Work.

She was still wounded…deeply. “I’m not jealous of my friends, I just don’t understand why my marriage didn’t work.”  Silence. “They all look so happy and I still wonder why things couldn’t work out differently for me.” Ouch! I was trying really hard not to blink. I didn’t want these tears to fall… at least not in front of her. Let’s Connect on Instagram…

She got invited to The White House.

Hey Nude-bies! Or do y’all prefer Vulnera-bites? Lol. (Vote in the comment section) Ok whatever… That’s not the point of my post today. So, if you read my last post, you’ll know that I’m in a season of Maximizing My Potential… Thank You Myles Munroe! It feels like Chapter 1 of that book ‘broke my water’ and…

Mentally, I’ve Left.

Vanessa: How’s life been with you? Me: I’m alright — still at my job. Want to be gone next year. Really doing myself a disservice by being there. Vanessa: I hear you, feel the same way. So many people have told me I’m wasting my talents at this job. I actually thought you had already…

I Can’t Relate.

My guest writer received so much love! Thank you to everyone who read, shared and took a moment to comment. I was so inspired that she received such love from all of you! It was an excellent reminder that we are all walking through experiences that others can also see themselves in. In response to…

I’ve Always Struggled With…

Thank you to my beloved friend who has so lovingly shared her life with us as a Guest Writer! I hope  you learn a thing or two from this glimpse into her life…as she teaches me so much, spoken & unspoken! I Love You and honored that you would share life with me. “So what…

I don’t want to be anonymous.

“When I look at you, I don’t see your color,” my supervisor said  to me. “Wait what? That’s not a compliment.” I responded. “Not seeing my color doesn’t disqualify you from being racist… Being able to see my color and not treating me any differently because of it, is what disqualifies you.” When I started this…