Why I Don’t Have Deep Friendships.

Ooooo Vulnerabites, let’s get into it! “Mac, I open up about my marriage, but I don’t feel like you do the same.” She shared her marital frustrations with me, and here came the golden question, “Girl, am I trippin?” — In short, I responded, “Maybe y’all should try counseling.” Ouch! There was no empathy, only…

Should I Tell Friends My Husband Cheated?

Hey Vulnerabites! We exchanged messages for about 2 hours before we decided that it’s best she not bring up the real issue with this woman again and resolve the new state of their friendship with a casual acquaintance. Now, y’all know I’m a firm believer in confrontation  —at least if you care about the relationship— but quite frankly,…

There’s Something (else) About Mac.

Hey Vulnerabites, Guess what y’all? I just received another bloggers award! Whoop! Whoop! What a lovely way to Celebrate two years of blogging! Two Awards in Two Years! Sweet! Drifty, thank you so much for recognizing my blog. I’m humbled and honored to have my Vulnerabite community acknowledged and appreciated. I am sincerely grateful to you…

Should Married People have Single Friends?

Oh Vulnerabites, She texted me saying: “Shared my news with the bestie and didn’t really get the excitement I was looking for.” Ouch. That feeling when the best time of your life is equally the worst time of your life. Somewhere in between ‘finally being found by your Boaz(or your Billy)‘ and being thrilled to…

No One Came to Our Wedding.

Hey Vulnerabites, So, there’s like this huge lump in my throat as I begin to share vulnerably about this part of my life. Like I mentioned a few blogs ago, I absolutely do not like talking about my relationship(or anything related to it), but seems to be the place that resonates with most of you. And…

What If I Never Get Married?

  Hey Vulnerabites, She sent me an email sharing how the transparency in my blog had inspired her own openness. After a few “hard and force you to process your feelings” questions and a couple of rough drafts later, this fell into my inbox. I hope you find her honesty as refreshing as I did….

If You’re Not Married by 28, You’re Screwed.

Hey Vulnerabites, So, I know y’all like when I talk relationships, those posts always drive the most traffic, and not to mention, it came up a number of times in response to my last post asking, “what do you want to read about?” So as per the request of a fellow Vulnerabite, here we go… “A guy…