What Being a Side Chick Taught Me about Friendship.

Hey Vulnerabites, Let’s get into it. “I’m coming to pick y’all up right now!”, I shouted through the phone. We all squeezed into my 1996 manual green Toyota Corolla, and with all of the rage from my last Yahoo Messenger IM pulled up to his house. He had the audacity to visit me two nights…

How Do I Know if He Likes Me.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac” for the month of August. You ask questions, I will choose one question to answer — only…

How to Tell My Friend That I Don’t Like Her.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac” for the month of August. You ask questions, I answer — only on Mondays. So…

My Husband Likes It, My Parents Don’t.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac”. You ask questions, I answer — only on Mondays. So send in your questions to…

Why I Hate Vision Boards.

  Hey Vulnerabites, I’ve just pissed off a few life coaches and motivational speakers with that title 🙂 So — it’s 2019. For the last couple of years, at the start of every new year, I would decide on my top 10 goals and create a vision board to accompany it. This Year? I haven’t…

How Church Taught Me to Orgasm.

Hey Vulnerabites, Sorry for the uncomfortable title, but y’all know how I do. Go ahead and scroll up, so no one will flash judgmental stares your way. Let’s get right into it. “The Female Orgasm” episode on Netflix’s Explained Docuseries is where it’s at. Spoiler Alert Below! Here’s what I learned: My clit is my best…

Why I Don’t Have Deep Friendships.

Ooooo Vulnerabites, let’s get into it! “Mac, I open up about my marriage, but I don’t feel like you do the same.” She shared her marital frustrations with me, and here came the golden question, “Girl, am I trippin?” — In short, I responded, “Maybe y’all should try counseling.” Ouch! There was no empathy, only…

Should I Tell Friends My Husband Cheated?

Hey Vulnerabites! We exchanged messages for about 2 hours before we decided that it’s best she not bring up the real issue with this woman again and resolve the new state of their friendship with a casual acquaintance. Now, y’all know I’m a firm believer in confrontation  —at least if you care about the relationship— but quite frankly,…

There’s Something (else) About Mac.

Hey Vulnerabites, Guess what y’all? I just received another bloggers award! Whoop! Whoop! What a lovely way to Celebrate two years of blogging! Two Awards in Two Years! Sweet! Drifty, thank you so much for recognizing my blog. I’m humbled and honored to have my Vulnerabite community acknowledged and appreciated. I am sincerely grateful to you…

I Posted His Penis on Facebook.

Hey Vulnerabites, Sooo umm Yaa Yaa, fellow Vulnerabite, read my last post and asked me this: How did you get through it with your self-esteem in tact and the ability to find love again? I wanted to throw the Christian stamp at her and shout JESUS!, but there’s a Mac who would roll her eyes…