How to Tell My Friend That I Don’t Like Her.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac” for the month of August. You ask questions, I answer — only on Mondays. So…

My Husband Likes It, My Parents Don’t.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac”. You ask questions, I answer — only on Mondays. So send in your questions to…

How Church Taught Me to Orgasm.

Hey Vulnerabites, Sorry for the uncomfortable title, but y’all know how I do. Go ahead and scroll up, so no one will flash judgmental stares your way. Let’s get right into it. “The Female Orgasm” episode on Netflix’s Explained Docuseries is where it’s at. Spoiler Alert Below! Here’s what I learned: My clit is my best…

Why I Don’t Have Deep Friendships.

Ooooo Vulnerabites, let’s get into it! “Mac, I open up about my marriage, but I don’t feel like you do the same.” She shared her marital frustrations with me, and here came the golden question, “Girl, am I trippin?” — In short, I responded, “Maybe y’all should try counseling.” Ouch! There was no empathy, only…

Should I Tell Friends My Husband Cheated?

Hey Vulnerabites! We exchanged messages for about 2 hours before we decided that it’s best she not bring up the real issue with this woman again and resolve the new state of their friendship with a casual acquaintance. Now, y’all know I’m a firm believer in confrontation  —at least if you care about the relationship— but quite frankly,…

There’s Something (else) About Mac.

Hey Vulnerabites, Guess what y’all? I just received another bloggers award! Whoop! Whoop! What a lovely way to Celebrate two years of blogging! Two Awards in Two Years! Sweet! Drifty, thank you so much for recognizing my blog. I’m humbled and honored to have my Vulnerabite community acknowledged and appreciated. I am sincerely grateful to you…

I Posted His Penis on Facebook.

Hey Vulnerabites, Sooo umm Yaa Yaa, fellow Vulnerabite, read my last post and asked me this: How did you get through it with your self-esteem in tact and the ability to find love again? I wanted to throw the Christian stamp at her and shout JESUS!, but there’s a Mac who would roll her eyes…

Should Married People have Single Friends?

Oh Vulnerabites, She texted me saying: “Shared my news with the bestie and didn’t really get the excitement I was looking for.” Ouch. That feeling when the best time of your life is equally the worst time of your life. Somewhere in between ‘finally being found by your Boaz(or your Billy)‘ and being thrilled to…

No One Came to Our Wedding.

Hey Vulnerabites, So, there’s like this huge lump in my throat as I begin to share vulnerably about this part of my life. Like I mentioned a few blogs ago, I absolutely do not like talking about my relationship(or anything related to it), but seems to be the place that resonates with most of you. And…

There’s Something About Mac.

Hey Vulnerabites, Hope the New Year is being good to you! Mine has been a little busier than I would’ve hoped, but hey… I’ll take it 🙂 Happy New Year to you! But as promised in the acceptance speech of receiving my first blog award … Here are 10 things about your Naked Writer: