What Being a Side Chick Taught Me about Friendship.

Hey Vulnerabites, Let’s get into it. “I’m coming to pick y’all up right now!”, I shouted through the phone. We all squeezed into my 1996 manual green Toyota Corolla, and with all of the rage from my last Yahoo Messenger IM pulled up to his house. He had the audacity to visit me two nights…

How Do I Know if He Likes Me.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac” for the month of August. You ask questions, I will choose one question to answer — only…

My Husband Likes It, My Parents Don’t.

Hey Vulnerabites! I have a sincere interest in human connection. I read about it, I talk about it and I write about it. I want to explore my interest for human connection with this pilot project called “Mondays with Mac”. You ask questions, I answer — only on Mondays. So send in your questions to…

Why I Hate Vision Boards.

  Hey Vulnerabites, I’ve just pissed off a few life coaches and motivational speakers with that title 🙂 So — it’s 2019. For the last couple of years, at the start of every new year, I would decide on my top 10 goals and create a vision board to accompany it. This Year? I haven’t…

Why I Don’t Have Deep Friendships.

Ooooo Vulnerabites, let’s get into it! “Mac, I open up about my marriage, but I don’t feel like you do the same.” She shared her marital frustrations with me, and here came the golden question, “Girl, am I trippin?” — In short, I responded, “Maybe y’all should try counseling.” Ouch! There was no empathy, only…

There’s Something (else) About Mac.

Hey Vulnerabites, Guess what y’all? I just received another bloggers award! Whoop! Whoop! What a lovely way to Celebrate two years of blogging! Two Awards in Two Years! Sweet! Drifty, thank you so much for recognizing my blog. I’m humbled and honored to have my Vulnerabite community acknowledged and appreciated. I am sincerely grateful to you…

I Posted His Penis on Facebook.

Hey Vulnerabites, Sooo umm Yaa Yaa, fellow Vulnerabite, read my last post and asked me this: How did you get through it with your self-esteem in tact and the ability to find love again? I wanted to throw the Christian stamp at her and shout JESUS!, but there’s a Mac who would roll her eyes…

Should Married People have Single Friends?

Oh Vulnerabites, She texted me saying: “Shared my news with the bestie and didn’t really get the excitement I was looking for.” Ouch. That feeling when the best time of your life is equally the worst time of your life. Somewhere in between ‘finally being found by your Boaz(or your Billy)‘ and being thrilled to…

The Most Difficult Feeling in the World.

Hey Vulnerabites! Oh how I’ve missed you. Thank you for all the love y’all have shown my guest writers! Felt like the moment a single mom brings home her male “friend” and her kids are nice to him. Big smooches to you all!!! But Your Naked Writer is back!!! Y’all know that I’ve recently rejoined social media  (for…

If You’re Not Married by 28, You’re Screwed.

Hey Vulnerabites, So, I know y’all like when I talk relationships, those posts always drive the most traffic, and not to mention, it came up a number of times in response to my last post asking, “what do you want to read about?” So as per the request of a fellow Vulnerabite, here we go… “A guy…